So, I had an interesting call the other day. A client filled out a pre call form and told me a little about himself–which is a wonderful thing to do before I speak with you for the first time!
He sounded like a lot of fun, and I looked forward to talking with him. I won’t go into all of his details, but he did say he was a loser, had a small penis, and wanted extreme verbal humiliation. From the words he used, I understood that I’d be making the rules.
Imagine my surprise when he began telling me all the things that turned him on. I informed him that he’d have to earn those things that make him most excited, and he was my little loser bitch now. Wow, that was the wrong move! He and I struggled through the call until he finally told me he didn’t think we were a good match.
After we hung up, I got to thinking about where we went wrong. How did I miss his cues? I obviously misunderstood him, right?
A Willing and Eager Partner Pleases Piper–What Pleases You?