It might be that you need punished for being a naughty subby, and being given a spanking makes you think twice about your behavior. Your glowing backside tells you that you brought this upon your self - and you had better not misbehave again!
Or... You might just need a little physical reminder that you are a submissive, whose power it is you are under, and what your purpose as a submissive is. Each lick is the physical equivalent of repeating a mantra like "I am Ms. EmmaJane's submissive," "Ms. EmmaJane owns me" or "I will be the most obedient sub ever!"
Then again (like a "big man, little sissy" of mine), you might need a spanking in order to reinforce the caring and affection of your Mistress in a very special way. You see, when I take the time to spank you NOT because you are being ill-behaved or requiring a reminder of your place, you know I am doing so because I care enough to give you a "bottom hug" (Pun intended...?) in order to give you a sense of structure, safety, and security. If I did not care, I would only put forth the physical effort when you required a spanking. This is an action I think can speak much more loudly than words.
Why do you find yourself wanting or need a spanking?
http://eroticaudios.com/content/EmmaJan ... p-0616.mp3
A Spanking Is Not Always Just a Spanking
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Empress EmmaJane
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OH! What does one use to appropriately whip a cowboy into shape? A leather belt! ...Or maybe a riding crop ...Or a firm hand... Well, I could just start with one item and move on to the next as I so desire. I would be fine with that. 
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empressmeredith
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Yes, Ms. EmmaJane, a spanking isn't always because they are naughty butt to show just how much you care. What better way then with a nice thick wood paddle, spoon, or firm hand? It may not be what they want, but you know what they need. Or better yet, what YOU want!
Spanking is a great way to reinforce your dominance, or just simply "show your love" and adoration for your subby. Nothing says you care quite like that sub waddling around with a bright red rosy set of cheeks!
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Empress EmmaJane
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Ms. Meredith, don't you just love those wooden paddles that have the holes strategically place in them in order to cut down on resistance from the air? They help that paddle land so effortlessly and solidly on a needy bottom. After all, if you're going to show the love with a spanking, you really want it to be felt!empressmeredith wrote:Yes, Ms. EmmaJane, a spanking isn't always because they are naughty butt to show just how much you care. What better way then with a nice thick wood paddle, spoon, or firm hand? It may not be what they want, but you know what they need. Or better yet, what YOU want!
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Empress EmmaJane
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It's even more delightful when that sub who's just been spanked has two sets of glowing cheeks - the stinging set on the backside and the flush of embarrassment and excitement on those facial cheeks - don't you think, Ms. Brighton?Brighton wrote:Spanking is a great way to reinforce your dominance, or just simply "show your love" and adoration for your subby. Nothing says you care quite like that sub waddling around with a bright red rosy set of cheeks!
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Empress EmmaJane
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In the words of Marvin Gaye, let's get it on!! I'm ready to hear that begging!8inch wrote:I ache to have my cheeks whipped and beat while I beg to have them spread and taken with a huge Femdom Strapon to completely own my tight virgin ass!!!!!!!!!!